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 People think a psychic is just a fortuneteller, but the gift goes far beyond something so simple.  ‘Simple?’ you ask.  We each have the ability should we choose to develop it. That means we need to trust and allow it.  But our own fears stand in the way.  So what is an easy way to get past them?  Love yourself enough to trust yourself.  Most of all our problems, fears and personal judgments come from not loving ourselves. Our sacred institutions teach love of other is best. Deny self. Sacrifice.



The source of all true guidance is a Being of such unconditional love for whom there is no fault, guilt, blame or judgment. No action is outside or beyond the realm of constant love.  Your awareness of such a Being results in knowing you are already lovable.  Learn to trust yourself and your sacred intuition will reveal itself to you.



 There can never be another you.  YOU are the pinnacle of your life’s existence.  You are the culmination of millions of years of evolution of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual you.  No one else can do you.  You are IT.  So, BE you.  You are your perfect gift to the universe.  Your worth lies in your beingness, not in your accomplishments.  So go ahead, achieve success, and still align with a conscious awareness of where your true value lies:  in your existence, not in your bank account, not in your perfect marriage, not in your well exercised body, but in the fact, no, the miracle of your existence. 



 When you were born and came fresh from the womb, there was wonder in the miracle of you.  That is still there, but if you are looking for its praise outside of yourself for that self same wonder, you have lost the point.  Your wondrousness is within you, always ready to shine forth as you bring conscious focus to life and love in your daily life.



 Each time you choose to align with the vibration of love in a tough situation instead of anger, resentment, fear or frustration, you choose for self. In doing so, become a light for others.  You don’t have to go anywhere, do anything or be anything other than you already are. You already ARE by your very existence.  No one else can ever be you. You ARE BEING it perfectly.



 Many people ask “How did you become psychic?”  You expect an answer that will awe you so you can remain asleep, reinforced in your fearful belief that you are less than.  But I tell you we are no different in our potential.  I would rather regale you with my great disasters and failures so you can believe yourself better if that will encourage you to own your own power and awaken your potential



 Some of you are awakening and feel a deep gut level urge that there is more to this reality, but have yet to take the next step on the seekers path.  Begin to read. Take a class. Meditate.  No step is wrong.  Just choose again and again until you find passion.  Feed that hunger food won’t satisfy.  You, your fears, your hopes, your intimate moments, your aliveness, your reason for existence, your relationship to God and to the Universe are the most interesting topics imaginable to you.  Don’t deny it.  We are fascinated by ourselves, and rightly so. 


We are the conscious, communicating expressions of Divinity.  We cannot do it wrong.  We can only make choices that hurt the physical, mental and emotional us, never the spiritual.  That is the part of us that we don’t talk about because it is too intimate, too personal, too private, especially those of us who think we have to be in control in our life.



 The most precious part of ourselves is the real us.  It is the reason we go into relationships, to find out who we are in relationship to something else. A new aspect of ourselves shows up in a new relationship… it’s our opportunity to learn and grow. When we find out we are not being ourselves, not being who we really want to be in a relationship, we disconnect from it, and rightfully so.  We begin the next relationship to learn who we really are, to choose a new way, a new us.  But most of the time we don’t take the opportunity for the growth and change.  It’s safer to fall in to old patterns, remain stuck, deal with the knowable pain. And so we get hurt again until we wake up to our own inner strength by being ourselves. It all starts by loving yourself first.



 We are grand beings of magnificence and beauty. Our individual capacity to love is only equaled by the love Creator has for us.  We each wait for that one special person to come into our lives and love us.  Don’t wait.  Practice loving with your whole being, from your heart, in each moment.  Start with YOU.  We are all One.  As you heal yourself, you heal all around you.



 My first teacher said “Joy is always a choice.”  I finally understood it when I decided to DO it, not TRY. DO.  So too can you, in each now moment choose joy or choose fear.  Joy aligns with the true unconditional love of God. Fear aligns with your own ego’s insecurities and the choice not to align with love. Yet, it is always your choice.  Simply choose again, over and over. Choose consciously that which speaks to the highest part of you and you will always choose well.

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